Wednesday, June 28, 2006

Magical Relationships

A friend called me last night upset because she and her girlfriend were breaking up... After listening for a while I said... Do you remember when you told me this was a magical relationship? she paused for a minute and said yep... I remember something about it... I could not help myself... I just had to say it... Well you know if you stop and think about it... It really was magic... She even disappeared... We both started laughing... At least I got a laugh out of her... After a while we talked about the fact that no relationship is magical... They take a lot of work, open communication, and compromise... No matter how life has progressed, I have always found myself not really knowing quite what people need from me when they call in that kind of pain... Do they just need me to listen quietly? Or do they need input? Perhaps a bit of my dry humor? I just never know quite what to say or do... I tend to always want to fix it for them even though I know that is not a realistic thing to do...

Welp... Better get some things done around here before the heat of the day sets in...

1 comments:

Gardenia said...

I think ya do great, your timely humor, your honesty, yet your empathy lend a healing to so many situations. You are much much wiser than you think.

Blessings dear one.

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